My husband, Steven
and I were sitting on the couch watching a movie when a commercial
came on. I reached over for my bottle of water. “Aren't the blooms
on my African violet spectacular!” I said looking over at him and
smiling.
Steven looked
completely confused. “What?”
“My African
violet.” I pointed to the beautiful plant in the middle of our
coffee table.
“Oh...” Steven
shrugged his shoulders. “I hadn't noticed.”
Now I was confused.
“How can you not notice it?” I once again pointed to the coffee
table, only this time to his slippered foot. “You're foot is
literally two inches away from it!”
Steven moved his
foot and looked at the plant. “Oh yeah.” he moved his foot back.
“Sure, it's pretty.”
I shook my head.
“It's been blooming for over a month!” I turned the pot so the
deep purple flowers faced him. “Right after Christmas the first
bloom came out.” I pinched a speck of dust from one of it's soft
leaves. “Seeing it every morning has certainly helped me with my
winter blahs.”
“Really?”
Steven looked out the window at the dreary rainy day we were having.
“Just looking at that plant has helped you forget all about this
time of year?”
Now I had to laugh.
“I didn't say it made me forget all about winter. It's not a
magical plant! I'm just saying at this time of year a few flowers
around the house sure helps.” I pointed over to the white orchid on
the side table.
Steven looked over
to where I was pointing. “When did we get that?”
“Seriously?” I
really couldn't believe it. “You never noticed that either? It's
been here for weeks!”
Steven shrugged his
shoulders. “Nope, never noticed it.”
“It's two feet
tall!” I cried. “I thought the white flower against the gray wall
really made it pop!”
Steven nodded. “No,
you're right, it does look pretty against the gray.” Steven looked
around the room. “Do you have any more flowers in here?”
“No, just the
two. Why?”
Steven shrugged his
shoulders. “Just wondering.”
Our son Alex came
into the room. “What are you two watching?” he asked as he came
up behind us and leaned on the back of the couch where the two of us
were sitting.
“A movie.” I
said as I patted the couch cushion next to me. “Want to come watch
with us? It just started.”
“Sorry, I can't.
I'm in the middle of something.” he leaned over and gave me a kiss
on the top of my head.
“Hey, can I ask
you something?” I turned to look up at him.
“Sure.”
I pointed to the
violet on the coffee table. “Did you notice how many flowers were
blooming on this plant?”
Alex looked over at
it. “Nope, I never noticed.”
“See!” Steven
cried, “It's not just me!”
“How can you two
be so blind?” I cried. “It's in the middle of the coffee table!”
Alex shrugged. “I
might not have noticed the flowers but I can tell you that I'm not so
blind that I didn't notice the brownies on the kitchen counter.”
I had to laugh.
“You didn't noticed them. I just took them out of the oven a few
minutes ago. You smelled them.”
“Smelled
them...'noticed them'...” He began to walk to the kitchen. “Either
way I'm on my way to having one. Anyone else want one?” he called
over his shoulder.
“I'll have one.”
Steven called back. He looked over at me. “They do smell good.”
“Hey, I'm just
glad one of your senses is working.”
You guys are so cute!!! Hahaha
ReplyDelete☺️ thanks!
DeleteHaha, funny how men are all the same. My husband wouldn't have noticed either :)
ReplyDeleteI'm glad it's not just me! Thanks!
DeleteMen do tend to notice much less than women. And they do have limited attention, so I don't think you should worry that he didn't notice the flower blooming :)
ReplyDeleteI try not to Joanna...it's always interesting living in a house filled the guys!
DeleteYour story is beautiful. I read a couple of your previous posts as well. Thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much! I'm glad you liked them!
DeleteLoved it! So true about how men and women notice details differently.
ReplyDeleteIt's crazy isn't it! I can't believe they can't see things like this!
DeleteThanks for sharing! It’s cute!
ReplyDeleteThanks so much!
Deletehaha men right?! Don't worry my hubby would be the same!
ReplyDeleteAnca | www.gracefullyglam.com
Hard to believe how much they miss! Glad I'm not alone!
DeleteOh yes...my teenage son is the same way, but he's blind to everything. My husband is much more observant!
ReplyDeleteHow lucky are you to have an observant hubby! Mine, not so much but he's still a keeper!
DeleteI had a similar experience happen to me! I walk around our yard every weekend looking at our blooming flowers and when I talk to my husband about them, he says he never notices!
ReplyDeleteAt least we're loving nature...they'll catch up eventually!
DeleteWow! happy family, so much fun! I enjoyed reading your article.
ReplyDeleteThanks so much! I'm glad you like it!
DeleteMen are all the same. We have to remind them to smell the roses with us.
ReplyDeleteExactly Erika! They're lucky they have us!
Deletethis makes me smile because it reminds me of my husband's attitude towards things that he sometimes overlook and not even recognized. your conversations are cute :)
ReplyDeleteThanks so much! What would they do without us!
DeleteYou just have to remind men of little details at times lol
ReplyDeleteExactly! Thanks so much for reading!
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