My recently
graduated son Alex and I were sitting on the back porch watching the
chipmunks and squirrels scurry around in the back woods collecting
anything and everything they could find to make it an easy winter for
themselves.
“I have to say, I
know how they feel.” I said as I pointed to one very busy chipmunk
running back and forth across the yard seeming to get nothing done
but making very good time doing it. “For the last twenty years
I've spent every fall running around getting someone ready for
another school year.” I sighed. “This fall just didn't feel the
same without someone going back to school.”
“Yeah, it's nice
isn't it?” Alex asked as he leaned back in his chair to get some
sun on his face.
“I don't know, I
kind of missed all that running around this year.” I watched as a
squirrel slowly made his way down a tree, grab an acorn off the
ground, slowly look around before stuffing it into his mouth and
frantically running back up the tree as if someone were right behind
him ready to take it away. “Those days of feeling like that
squirrel where we'd be running from department stores to grocery
stores to hardware stores, then over to the office supply store
trying to get you ready.” I smiled at him as he looked over at me.
“And when I say 'we' you know I really mean 'me'. Because there was
no way you were going to get supplies, pack, and make sure everything
was just right for your first day of school no matter where you were
going.”
Alex smiled.
“Thanks, Mom.”
“I'm not looking
for thanks.” I quickly added. “I'm just saying I can relate to
those guys out there.” I waved my hand in the general direction of
the woods. “Once you feel the temperature start to drop there's
some strange need that comes over you to get busy doing... I don't
know...” I shrugged my shoulders,”Stuff.”
“So now that
you're not getting me ready for school, what stuff do you feel you
need to do?”
“I'm glad you
asked.” I smiled as I looked over at him. “I'm thinking of taking
a class, maybe something on-line that I can take whenever I'm ready
to start.”
Alex sat up.
“Really?”
“I don't know,
I've been looking at a few on-line colleges and there's one or two
classes that seem interesting.” I took a sip of my tea, “It just
seems like the right time for me to start taking them.”
“I think that's a
great idea.” Alex said.
“Really?” I
said. “Because it's been years since I've taken a class and these
classes can be pretty intense. I might need a little extra time to
study.”
“Well, sure. Take
all the time you need.”
I felt a sigh of
relief come out of me. “I'm glad you’re being so understanding,
because between work and studying I might need some help around the
house making dinners, cleaning bathrooms, going grocery shopping you
know, stuff.”
“Sure.” Alex
said. “Just let me know what you need.”
“Wow.” I had
to smile. “Thanks.”
“Hey, I'm happy
for you.” Alex swatted a mosquito off his arm. “I'm just glad I'm
not the one going back to school this year!”
“Was it really
that terrible?” I asked looking over at him. “You're not going to
miss anything about school?”
Alex smiled. “I
don't know.” he said. “Why don't you let me know how you feel
around Thanksgiving.”
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